Thursday, July 26, 2012

I Still Love Rob.




Pretty much sums it up.


Because so much of Twired has been devoted to Robsten, my knee jerk reaction was to jump ship and close TWIRED when solid evidence of KStew's cheating surfaced. I quickly told myself that that would be truly ridiculous. I love Rob. I love Twilight. I love this fandom. And yes, I still love Kristen...despite mistakes she's clearly allegedly made. I have no right to be mad at her. Her relationship with Rob is just that, HER relationship. Their relationship. As much as it pains me to be writing this, there isn't anything any of us can do. Of course I'm pretty devastated that it's likely they wont be a couple during BD2 promotions...that was one of those things that I was really looking forward to, especially after their public love fest in Cannes. But again, NOTHING WE CAN DO. Did I think they'd last forever...kind of, but I'd always hoped they'd at least stay together until the last movie was released....it's selfish really.

All that said, I'm not shutting down Twired. I need it to air my feelings. To support the release of BD2 & the actors we have all grown to adore.

Speaking of those we adore. Have you seen this pics of Rob from Black Book Magazine? Holy cow.







Mmm. My fave. Bad Boy Rob.






Wowza.


I know it's easy to wonder where the eff Kristen's head was when she cheated on this man-god...but we all make mistakes. For those of you hating on my 1/2 joking comment over at Twitarded, hear this: I was 22 once, and made my share of mistakes. I'm not saying it's excusable or that Rob should forgive her. And yes, I do think she was super stupid about it....especially since she's famous, and knows very well that the paps will find you if your a celeb of that caliber. Clearly she wasn't thinking, and just acting on instinct...like a lot of do when we're younger.

I ask this of you all, please don't be so quick to HATE. It's a strong word.


XOXO J



12 comments:

  1. I agreed completely. I hope they make it. I love them together.

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  2. Please do not EVER shut down your blog. Well said Jen!!!!
    I have cheated before and it was me ring selfish. It had NOTHING to do with anyone but me.
    On a happier note, loving the Rob pics ;)

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    1. Thanks missy :) I have too, back in the day. And yes, aren't the pics hot? Gah!

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  3. Rob looks delicious, as always.
    I love the books, the first movie...and all the people I met along the way. I am in a different camp(as you know) and always loved him despite the things I have seen. Catch my drift??
    Miss u Jen, wish I could rub that pretty belly of yours.
    Xoxoxo

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    1. Thanks Mrs. P. We have always been friends despite that crazy camp of yours ;) And I wish you could come rub the belly too. Wish you didn't live so far away. One day, you're coming to CA!

      xo J

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  4. Why you gotta make me cry...again? You know I have chosen to deal with this as privately as possible because it just hurts too f*cking much. But you and I have been it for the long haul and I know how tough it must have been to write this post. So here I am. It's beautifully written. Love you!

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    1. Well your comment made me tear up, so there. I totally didn't plan on posting about it...especially this soon & coupled with the fact I can't down a bottle of wine then post....but I was thinking about it and the words just came, so I opened up blogger and went for it.

      Hang in there. We have so much to be thankful for...though this is pretty devastation for us serious Robsten fans, it's not the end of the world. I have to keep telling myself that.

      Love you too.

      xo J

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    2. devastating...not devastation. Stupid mac.

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  5. I am so, so glad you are not closing down Twired. I really enjoy your posts even if I don't comment enough.

    Just want to say I don't hate Kstew. In my opinion what she did was stupid and wrong. How many of can truly say we didn't do stupid things when we were young?

    My main focus is still Rob. I know he is hurting and wish him all the best in recovering from his heartbreak. Hopefully it won't be too long until he feels as good as he looks in these pictures. (that's pretty darn good)

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  6. I feel so sad for both of them... I hope they make it through, or can at least come to some kind of resolution if they don't. It must be a lonely world at the top of the celebrity tree, esp with all the pap vipers curling up the trunk. It might be that they need to experience other relationships - Kristen, at least. I know what that's like and I don't blame her for it. I know what it's like to love someone and not want to hurt them, yet still feel the relationship isn't 'forever' or quite right, and end up doing something stupid. Cheating is a coward's way out and sometimes we humans do cowardly things. Not something to be proud of, but there it is.

    Much as it pains me to say it, I think Kristen is too young to settle down. She needs to expand and that's where her instinct is taking her. Yes, Rob is gorgeous, but it doesn't matter how gorgeous someone is; it's whether it's right or not.

    Anyway, nobody knows but them. I wish them love, most of all for themselves. Life is fucking hard sometimes, and no-one is immune, least of all celebrities. It's all the more poignant when we associate those celebrities with fairytale endings. Sad, sad, fucking sad. But new life, new growth, is inevitable, and the one guarantee is that it will be richer than what went before - as long as they keep their eyes and hearts open.

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  7. Good lawd woman- those photos of Rob are so incredibly hot. *fans self*

    Chef Jayla

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